一、相亲前一个月 　　1、只要看到镜子，就把它当成未来的老丈人及老丈母娘，大练鞠躬及微笑，同时富有礼貌地，饱含深情地说：“伯父好！阿姨好！”等客套话数次。 　　2、只要在厨房，就抓紧时间练习切丝儿，切片儿，切块儿以及煎炒烹炸技巧，直到有一项出类拔萃为止。 　　3、只要玩麻将，就练习点炮，直到点响时不露声色以及对方感到水到渠成为止。 　　4、如工作允许，每周至少应约请三位不同年龄及性别的老年客户，在实战中练习并不断提高与老年人的沟通技巧。 　5、根据其家庭成员的组成及喜好情况，为每个人准备相关的聊天课题两套以上，大到惊心动魄的国际形势，小到声情并茂的《孔融让梨》，要达到均能驾驭自如的水平，对于诸如打毛衣中常见的罗马尼亚针法呀，喜闻乐见的琴、棋、书、画、花、鸟、鱼、虫知识呀，也能做到信手拈来。 　　二、相亲前一天 　　1、忌蒜、韭菜、洋葱、萝卜、羊肉等异味食品，宜多吃口香糖，争取达到吐气如兰。 　　2、根据前期调查，详细制订相亲方案三套以上，以兵棋推演的方式，标记出老丈人家房屋结构，对鞠躬地点、微笑地点、问好地点、点烟倒水地点、易碎品（如暖水瓶等）地点等要重点熟悉，为防万一。应准备应急预案，以应付突发闹肚子、老丈人不按常理问话等情况，为保证效果，上述预案至少应演练六次以上。 　　3、做好头型、装束设计后，应到街道秧歌队等老年人集中的地方验证实际效果，虚心听取意见并加以改进，直到众位大爷大妈对自己的装束啧啧称赞为止。 　　4、投其所好，因地制宜地为每个家庭成员准备合适的礼物，如小孩子用的哗啦棒，高档果子露，老太太用的豆浆机，名品老花镜，老爷子用的补脑液，精品痒痒挠儿等。 　　5、大量翻阅《相亲365问》、《相亲之兵棋推演》等相关书籍，对重要章节达到烂熟于心，做到有备无患。

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哎 不容易啊

[whitepad]***400;200;400,200;;*2.25; m46,49 l46,50,44,51,44,53,42,54,42,55,40,56,39,58,39,60,37,62,36,65,32,69,32,70,30,70,30,73,27,73,26,74,26,75,24,76,22,78,22,79 20,80,20,82,18,83,16,85,16,87,14,88,14,90 e|********* m20,44 l20,45,21,47,23,53,26,55,28,58,30,64,32,66,32,69,33,70,34,73,37,75,37,78,38,81,38,83,39,84,39,87,40,88,41,90,41,93,43,99 43,101,44,104,44,106,45,109,46,113,48,118,49,121,49,123,50,126,50,162,47,162,45,160,42,159,38,159,35,157,32,156,30,154,27,153,26,152,23,151 22,150,21,150,21,148,18,147 e|********* m23,123 l46,123,47,121,49,121,49,119,52,119,53,117,55,117,55,115,56,115,56,113,57,113,58,111,58,110,60,109,60,106,61,104,61,103,62,101,62,99,63,97 64,96 e|********* m75,55 l75,56,111,56,112,57 e|********* m71,105 l112,105 e|********* m91,64 l91,112,92,113,92,131,90,132,90,136,88,138,88,147,86,148,86,158,84,159 e|********* m57,163 l120,163,121,164,122,164 e|********* m182,73 l232,73,232,75 e|********* m208,75 l208,78,209,81,209,83,210,86,210,138,211,139,211,157,207,157,206,155,205,154,204,154,203,152,201,151,196,146,195,144,193,144,192,142,192,141,190,141,185,136 182,134 e|********* m240,55 l294,55 e|********* m276,57 l276,63,274,65,274,68,272,69,272,70,270,72,270,74,268,75,268,76,266,77,266,78,263,81,263,83,261,84,261,88,259,88,259,90,257,90,257,91,253,91 e|********* m226,98 l226,100,227,101,227,103,228,105,228,109,229,110,229,113,230,114,230,115,231,116,231,120,229,116 e|********* m229,100 l270,100,271,98,285,98,285,101,283,102,283,104,281,105,281,111,279,111,279,138,277,138 e|********* m228,115 l228,123,229,124,229,129,230,131,230,139 e|********* m255,114 l255,134,253,136,253,151,251,153,251,155,249,156,249,159,247,160,246,162,245,163,244,165,243,166,243,168,241,169,239,171,238,173,238,174,236,175,235,176,233,177 232,177,228,179,225,179,225,180,223,181,222,182,219,182,218,183,216,183,215,184,214,184,212,186,214,183 e|********* m252,146 l253,146,256,149,259,150,263,154,266,155,270,156,273,158,276,159,280,161,283,161,284,162,286,162,287,163,290,163,291,164,293,164,295,165,297,165,298,166,299,166 300,167,301,167,304,168,307,168,310,169,314,169,316,170,346,170 e|********* m372,55 l372,59,370,62,370,64,368,67,367,70,367,72,365,75,364,78,364,80,362,83,361,84,361,89,359,90,359,94,357,94,357,96,355,97,355,108,353,109,353,116 351,117,351,120,349,121,349,122,347,124 e|********* m341,141 l341,143,342,144,342,150,345,150,345,142,343,140,343,139,341,140,341,143,343,145,345,145,345,142,343,141,343,139,344,134 e|********* m372,56 l373,56,373,72,371,73,371,76,369,77,369,79,367,80,367,83,365,84,365,87,363,88,363,93,361,94,361,97,359,99,359,112,357,114,357,119,355,119,355,122 353,122,353,124,351,124,350,122,350,115,351,115,352,113,352,112,353,111,353,110,355,108,355,107,356,107,356,104,357,103,357,101,358,101,358,96,359,95,359,91 360,90,360,88,361,88,361,85,363,83,363,82,365,80,365,78,366,77,366,75,367,74,367,73,368,72,368,69,369,68,369,66,370,66,370,78,368,78,368,79 366,80,366,81,364,82,364,83,362,83,362,84,360,85,360,86,358,86,358,88,356,89,355,90,355,96,353,97,353,112,354,113,354,117,355,117,355,115,356,114 356,113,357,112,357,110,358,109,356,110,356,111,354,113,354,116,352,116,352,118,350,119,350,120,351,120,351,117,353,115,353,114,354,111,355,109,355,106,356,105 356,101,357,100,357,98,358,97,358,95,359,95,360,93,360,90,361,90,361,87,362,86,362,83,363,81,364,80,364,79,365,78,365,76,366,76,367,74,367,73 368,72,368,71,369,70,369,69,370,69,370,67,371,66 e[/whitepad]

真是不容易呀,没试过不知道感觉如何,呵呵

只要玩麻将，就练习点炮，直到点响时不露声色以及对方感到水到渠成为止

呵呵,有机会一定要学习学习!!

真是不容易呀,美女,帅哥就不用这么麻烦了吧,哈哈

有点自恋了吧？郁闷

支持一下啊!

支持一下吧

呵呵，一定要学习学习。

都是那么虚伪啊

[whitepad]***400;200;400,200;;*15; m20,33 l21,33,21,34,22,34,22,35,23,36,25,40,28,40,32,42,36,42,37,43,39,43,39,44,42,44,45,45,89,45,92,44,93,44,96,43,98,42,99,42 101,41,104,40,106,40,111,38,115,37,117,36,119,36,122,34,123,33,126,33,127,32,129,31,130,30,131,30,131,29,132,29,134,28,135,27,135,26,136,26 138,24 e|********* m86,49 l87,50,87,53,88,54,89,56,89,59,88,61,88,71,89,72,89,73,90,74,90,76,91,77,91,88,92,89,92,92,93,93,93,97,94,99,95,100,95,101 92,104,92,106,91,108,91,111,92,113,92,116,94,117,93,117,92,119,92,120,90,122,90,125,89,126,89,128,87,132,85,135,85,137,83,138,83,139,81,140 80,142,80,144,79,146,78,147,78,148,76,150,76,151,69,158,65,158,64,159,57,159,56,158,56,157,54,157,54,155,51,155,51,154,50,153,49,153,49,152 48,152,47,150,46,150,45,149,45,147,43,147,43,144,41,144,41,142,39,142 e|********* m159,18 l160,18,160,19,161,19,162,20,163,20,164,21,166,21,167,22,170,22,170,23,171,23,173,24,174,24,174,25,177,25,179,26,180,27,180,28,181,28,181,31 183,31,183,32,218,32,220,31,221,31,225,29,227,29,230,28,231,28,234,26,236,24,237,24,239,22,241,22,243,20,244,20,247,19,248,18,251,18,251,17 252,16,254,16,256,15,257,15,259,14,266,14,266,15,268,15,268,16,284,16 e|********* m242,28 l242,30,243,30,243,33,242,34,241,34,241,36,239,37,239,39,237,41,237,42,236,43,235,45,233,47,233,48,232,48,231,50,231,51,228,53,228,54,222,60 221,60,220,62,218,62,215,64,181,64,180,65,180,66,182,70,182,73,183,73,183,74 e|********* m120,74 l127,74,129,75,134,75,136,76,139,76,140,77,141,77,141,78,142,79,142,80,144,81,145,83,147,84,147,86,148,86,149,87,151,88,151,92,152,93,152,95 153,96,153,100,154,100,154,103,153,104,153,105,152,107,150,109,150,113,149,114,149,118,148,118,148,119,146,122,146,123,145,124,144,126,144,127,143,128,143,131 142,131,141,132 e|********* m142,69 l149,69,151,71,152,71,152,73,157,73,157,75,158,75,158,76,163,76,163,80,165,80,165,81,167,81,167,82,212,82,215,81,217,81,219,80,220,79,224,77 227,77,231,75,234,75,236,74,240,73,248,73,251,72,252,72,254,71,258,71,260,72,261,73,264,73,264,74,266,74,266,75,267,75,267,87,265,88,266,88 266,92,265,93,264,93,264,96,262,99,262,101,261,103,262,104,261,105,260,105,260,107,258,108,258,110,256,111,256,113,255,114,254,114,254,116,253,116,252,117 252,119,251,119,250,120,250,122,249,122,248,123,248,125,246,126,245,128,245,129,244,129,244,131,243,131,242,132,242,133,241,133,240,134,237,134 e|********* m191,106 l191,125,189,127,189,130,188,132,188,140,186,141,185,143,185,145,184,147,183,150,182,152,180,154,179,156,179,157,177,159,177,161,175,162,169,168,169,169,167,170 164,173,161,174,161,175,158,176,156,177,153,178,149,180,146,181,142,181,137,182,117,182,115,181,112,181,112,179,110,179,108,177,107,177,106,175,104,175,104,173 102,173,101,171,100,170,99,168,98,165,96,164,95,161,94,160,94,159 e|********* m204,146 l205,146,206,149,205,151,205,152,206,153,206,154,207,155,208,157,209,160,209,161,210,161,210,163,211,163,212,165,212,166,213,167,214,167,215,168,216,168,217,169 220,171,221,172,223,172,225,173,227,173,228,174,230,174,231,175,233,175,235,176,237,176,237,177,270,177,272,176,275,174,281,171,288,170,290,169,293,169,295,168 298,166,300,164,301,164,304,161,306,161,308,159,310,158,311,158,312,155,313,155,313,154,315,153,315,152,316,149,316,148,317,146,317,143,318,141,318,139 e[/whitepad]